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Once a loner always a loner. I am learning that the hard way.
The last month has been so stressful, I didn't think I would make it to this blog again. The fun part is, being a loner, I have not a soul on this planet I can share this with. May be they will discover life on Ganymede. (Mars is too close for my liking). Till then, my dear blog, share this cross with me. I am not sure how much longer I can take this.

I am not forgetting my friends in blogdom. Rain, in particular. Thanks for all your kind words. I have been through this earlier, maybe I will make it through again. Oddly, Loners tend to be rather resilient.

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Anonymous said…
Hello Loner.

I hope your Christmas went well.

By the sound of your post, are you leaving? I hope not. I know that you are lonely, and I know how that feels. I'm lonely also. But knowing that I'm not alone in my solitary, makes me feel somewhat less lonesome. (does that even make sense?)

No matter where you are in the world, I will always be here for you. (hopefully)If I ever decide to delete my blog and stop blogging, you will be the first to know. I wouldn't leave you hanging like that, no, not you.

We loners must stick together.
Hang in there; you never know what the next day brings, or the next, or the next, and so on. I should take some of my own advice, huh?
4:42 PM
Pradeep VM said…
Thanks rain. You are a such a great support. No I am not going to stop blogging. This is one of the few activities I still enjoy.

Like you said, we loners must stick together. A conglomerate of loners. Isn't that a contradiction in terms or something. Like a round square.

I have been your blog several times lately. I see, you have decided to moderate comments. On way that is good.(It blocks my comments out. So it must be good.)
11:30 AM
Anonymous said…
hi! I am a loner too. I just want to say that a loner's life is sad but maybe things would turn out to be better if we just hope right?
7:29 AM
Pradeep VM said…
Hope? Isn't that among the first things you lose once you become a loner?. That is an interesting poit. Let me see if I can blog on that !! If you don't mind, that is.
9:53 AM
Anonymous said…
What kind of a loner Hopes !!
9:33 AM
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